If you are in that bad of a spot in you life and fear for your own life..maybe a kid should not be…

If you are in that bad of a spot in you life and fear for your own life..maybe a kid should not be involved..adoption is an option I'm not saying you should I do how ever know it takes a lot to be a parent and to care for children.. most people who say they never want kids..they really don't...just know the + and - because the free time you have before a baby.. that usually goes away along with lots of sleep and if your single remember it will be even harder..I'm not telling you to give up your kid just know just what you are signing up for...its alot of work,it is worth it but if life feels at its lowest a baby will not help anything get better..that requires work from you. stay strong ladies no matter what life is chosen.