why do guys not understand that we just want them to care more. I finally moved into my boyfriends…

why do guys not understand that we just want them to care more. I finally moved into my boyfriends grandparents house with him and im trying to get everything in order for the baby but my boyfriend refuses to search anything or try to figure things out as he goes. so of course I get mad at him and we get into a fight. im here mad and he is asleep..... what the hell...