When you first moved out, and some of you away from home. Were you a bundle of nerves, sadness, and…

I was depressed the first month after leaving Texas I still consider that my home:/

What helped you get past it?

@hermommy,

Imust admit, moving from Boston to Florida 14 almost 15 years ago was so super hard on me. I packed up, and me and my daughter's left everything we ever knew -family, friends, etc- to come to Florida to live and be with the man that would become my husband. I had a really hard time coping with being away from everything and especially my mom for all these years. Eventually, it does get easier . At least it did for me.

my fiance helped me realize that while Texas maybe my home and birthplace my life is here and I so be okay, also just remember visiting is always possible it'll be hard I won't lie I still cry sometimes especially being pregnant but the way I look at it is this I my daughters home now <3

did your husband get his duty station is that what's going on?

I can tell you right now I've been moved away from oklahoma for 7 months and moved to wisconsin where all of my fiances family is and I have hated every second of it. everything situation is different for everyone so you may take it differently then I have.. I've been a person who always was with friends no matter what and yes I know there is a time you have to grow up and start a family in which we are doing but you can't take someone who was social all the time and put them in a situation where they don't speak to anyone at all because I haven't made a friend or met a single person here to just talk to and it's been hard on me and on my relationship with my fiance because it's put me in a depression but like I said every situation is different you may move and instantly meet people you get along with. good luck I hope it all works out

Yes he got his duty station. On top of that, we already have one truck payment, and he's wanting to add another and we have big stuff we've got to get for the house. I'm so stressed out and scared. @hermommy @oklahoma.girl55 @sarahemccormick