I need my ladies advice ( long post )
So my daughter father & I aren't together and he does very little for his daughter due to the fact his new girlfriend is afraid of me & him being together. 1. its about our child I have very little romantic feelings for him anymore so him coming over visiting our child , is just that nothing more.But to keep his girlfriend happy he doesn't see his daughter the level of immaturity of both of there behalf is disgusting!!!! But the other day he gets arrested . & from my understanding the situation is very serious. So he ask for my help & his gf 😂😂😂 ( dealing w/ lawyers , meetings , phone conference, etc etc etc " hold him down in his words " ) now I can fully help him but should I ? he deserves to sit his ass there . & why help him get out to go back to doing the same thing ! but should I let my daughter father sit in jail & he's innocent.. Knowing i could help but won't! ugh ! i.need everyone opinions on this
* AGAIN SORRY FOR THE LONG POST #RANTING 😡😡😡😡
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His girl needs to do all that , not you! Just saying...
I wouldn't help him out at all. In my opinion no type of neglect towards a child is forgivable. I can accept when I get treated some type of way but when it comes to my kids, nope. You'll get cut off instantly.
oh and don't just help him so he can see his daughter, let it be clear your doing this for her sake. and he needs to think about her first. he isn't your responsibility, but your daughter will aways come first.
@aubreysmommy, your not being harsh at all hun hes not your responsibility anymore
he's using your for his own convenience. his gf shouldn't be so so childish and be afraid of you. she's obviously insecure. and your ex needs to put his family first, bit some chick. Might be wrong, but I kinda wanna say make a deal with him. either he is apart of his daughters life regardless of his new girlfriends insecurities, or he continue to let her dictate what he can do and not put his family first, and if that's the case. he won't be apart of her life, and he won't get any help from you ever. It will be hard, but if he's true about wanting to see her, then he needs to prove it.
@aubreysmommy, it's not your job anymore to help him even if he is the father of your child
dont help him hes an ass, now that he needs you he goes and asks for help but when you need him to be their for his daughter hes just stupid DO NOT PLEASE
I would let his girl handle all of that since she wanna be immature