Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
do you... Clean up after your SO is done cooking? Or vice versa? DF was cooking and while he was cooking I unloaded the dish washer and hand washed the pot he had used and put dishes in the dish washer, so by the time he got his plate, dishes were done and left overs were in Tupperware on the counter just in case anyone wanted seconds and counters were wiped down. The room mate asked me why I do that, and I just say that's how I was raised. I always clean up after anyone cooks in the house, even after myself. I clean as I cook, so DF doesn't clean up because it's done before dinner is finished lol. But there's rare occasions where he'd be in the kitchen while I cook so he does help out with the cleaning since i cook during the day sometimes so we can heat it up when it's dinner time. I want everyone to get their first and seconds before I eat. My mom has taught me to always clean up after your spouse makes dinner, it's only fair. They put their effort into cooking, you should always help them out.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.
Ladies! Please tell me I'm not over dramatic right now. Here's what happened last night. I'm ebf. No bottles, no pumping yet so Rawlin is completely dependent on me for feeding. So last night I was in the shower and my husband couldn't get him to stop crying (he was hungry) so I cut it short. Get out butt naked and hurry to feed him. Not even get dressed or anything so we feed for 20 min. & so he fell asleep and I lay him down and go into the bathroom to try to get dressed and he started fussing and I asked my husband to come get him for a second. & he still couldn't get him to stop crying and he yells at me to hurry up and i just got frustrated and said damn man I can never do anything for myself. & this fucker said "well you shouldn't have had kids then!" Like excuse me?? I was so mad I didn't even talk to him for the rest of the night. So I had to feed Rawlin again for another 20 min. For some reason he kept wanting to cluster feed. And I needed to clean the kitchen after dinner and he couldn't help me! So it's already 9 at this point. And he hasn't helped me with anything. And my 3 year old is still in his regular clothes so I had to go change him and put his pjs and tuck him then. Then pack my husband lunch. Clean the kitchen. Throw the trash. And yes I never expect my husband to help BUT since I had Rawlin I'm still healing from my c section so I do expect to help atleast with the kids. And he knows this!!! and when I asked him to help he gives me this ugly freaking attitude. Anyways. It's been like this for the past week. Anyways I asked my husband to get me the swabs to clean Rawlin belly button cause his cord fell off and he just acted like the world was gunna end and then slammed the drawers. Like really? It's that hard to help me! I know he works 7-7 with no days off but my job never ends either!!! I'm just stressed and I really trying to avoid getting ppd again but this doesn't help at all.
