Having the first everything on both sides can be more stressful than exciting. Sometimes I'm so over…

Someone said to me "congratulations I bet your excited" and before I could even say anything, my mother replied "oh yes, I'm very excited" like you had your chance with your 3 kids and you mother my nephew, leave this one to me.

@arijane316, girl I know how you feel. I got his side claiming car seats for they car trying to plan her first birthday already I'm like isn't that something the "PARENTS DO"

I'd be like "this is my child, you will not be planning any birthdays for her"

@arijane316, see I've snapped on his sister, and I told him that from here on out Imma need for him to be the voice . They are not my parents they are his and we aren't even engaged yet. These people really have my mind on edge

Lol maybe it's just because I'm a bitch. but I'd flip shit and be like "idgaf what you guys think, she's my daughter and you will not do anything until I've already done it and I'm tired of it"

@babycabralsmom, people treated me that way with my 1st daughter. they acted like I was their surrogate. my husband's grandma would want to take me places so she could show off that I was pregnant and even more so after we found out she was a girl. (she had 4 boys). she talked about my baby and was way more excited than I was. I was just uncomfortable about the situation... like i wouldn't let her come over after the baby was born if I was here alone. I was half afraid she was gonna stuff me in a closet and take my kid and run the way she acted. for the longest time she would get fighting mad if we ever told her no about anything. it's taken 17 months but she's finally getting better about it.

@nicemmcha2015, oh god that's just too long. See this is our first child as well. They getting mad because I made it known when she born no taking pics posting them on any social media like let her look like something first. His sister want to get mad I'm like all of y'all are older than me you want to try and plan my baby shower like you want your baby shower this that and the third. How about you go have your own bby

' I Understand My Daughter Is The 1st Grandchild &&' Great Grandchild On Both Sides &&' The 1st Too Make Our Bros N Sis Aunties &&' Uncles...

@babycabralsmom, I've dealt with people being pissy about us not wanting our kids on social media as well. our kids pics are not allowed on any social media, period. and yeah I'd be ill about that too