Really torn on if I should go back to work, or quit and become a stay at home mom😔 I need opinions,…

I went back to work and at first it was hard because I was attached but over time I realized I made the best descision because it was time for myself in a way. Its where I went to be social and it was a healthy break from baby and hubby lol I also love the fact that I can buy him whatever he wants myself if need to be. I dont have to rely on hubby.

I went back to work for about 7 1/2 months after my first.... my husband bought a business and was too stressed out from that to be worrying about where our son was (we worked opposite shifts most days) so we talked about it and figured up the money aspect and it worked out for us.... I now stay home with our 2 year old son and 4 month old daughter (once in a great while I will fill in as secretary at my husband's shop but haven't in awhile since I'm nursing our daughter lol)....

I decided to stay home because I wanted my baby to be raised by me. I felt like it would have killed me to leave him with someone else for so many hours of his life. They grow so fast and develop so quickly I didn't want to miss those times. I have not worked in 18 months now and I don't regret it at all. I love taking care of my family and home. It is a sacrifice but we believe it is the most important thing we can give to our child. I make sure to meet with friends with little ones so I don't go crazy and my baby can play with others children.

Awww man I'm still torn. @des_a_rayy I'm a very social person too. If I'm in my house for a long period of time I start to go nuts. But then again. @elenalee I'm not comfortable having someone else raise my son. I want to be there for everything.

See hes with me from the time I get home everyday to when I leave in the morning and all day on the weekends lol im blessed the "other" person raising him well I work is his father :) I really havent missed anything, the other night I saw him stand, I give him baths everynight, he is still breastfed and hes almost 8 months so besides the 8 hrs hes with hubby during the day lol the rest hes with me. Max and I even go to mommy and me class on saturday mornings to play and bond

I love being a sahm (3.5 years now). I get to raise all my children and see every milestone they get to. I never miss a moment in their lives. Its challenging yes but so rewarding. I will be able to look back and cherish all the memories of what we did when they were little. I don't trust strangers to watch my children or like daycares. They have too many children to watch all at once. I'm overprotective of my kids lol. Once my son and daughter get old enough to go to school I'll be finding a full time or part time job that works with their school schedule. (5 years goes by fast and I think its a nice break before going back into the work field)