There they go guilting me about money again..... I have a mortgage. My sister has no rent. I have…
There they go guilting me about money again..... I have a mortgage. My sister has no rent. I have mouths to feed with my own money. She gets food stamps. I have bills. She gets utility assistance. When something breaks, I have to fix it or replace it. She goes to a rent to own place and just gets stuff.
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with people who get assistance for anything. I was on food stamps once! But how is it that her boyfriend works 60 hours a week supposedly and they have no money at all?! I don't understand.
It comes down to, how do I make sure her kids are taken care of and have what they need without actually giving her any money? If I give her anything it'll be gone in an instant. I want her kids to have food clothes whatever else they need.......
Samantha·
Мама дочки-младенца
get it for them. instead of giving her the money.
Aaliyah·
В ожидании первенца
I would just buy the things they need if I wanted to help and give it to them.
Erica·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
The only problem is they live 4 hours away now 😭 part of me wants to not even worry about it because last year my sister had 2 surgeries back to back and I let her literally drain our savings. I paid her bills and bought them groceries before she got food stamps for almost 8 months. On top of my bills and my family and my shelter. @babychloe @atw2016
Samantha·
Мама дочки-младенца
you should let her figure it out... i doubt shes gonna let her kids starve. shes probably just gotten used to you swooping in and saving her...
Aaliyah·
В ожидании первенца
I agree ^^^
Shandy·
Мама троих детей
May sound cold hearted but let her figure it all out by herself. Do not help her anymore what so ever. She wanted to spread her legs & have kids, it's her responsibility to take care of her kids & pay her own bills now!
dylisha·
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
I agree. She need to figure it out on her own. Dont give up anything.
dylisha·
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
And stop feeling guilty also. Its not your fault she's in the position they're in