OK gotta vent so we are driving in the car with his 8 year old daughter and the music is blasting…

OK gotta vent so we are driving in the car with his 8 year old daughter and the music is blasting and she is dancing in the backseat to where the whole car is shaking I didn't say a word or lower the music nothing I was letting it be and then be looks at me and turns off the music and then she's like why'd u turn off the music and he's like because its annoying Betsy all rude as fuck like as if I asked him to turn it off and I didn't! then he throws his fucking tandrum like saying his life sucks and I'm like um I didn't say a word and she's all throwing a fit then he drives all crazy like he don't give a fuck. now we r home and I went into the room. now they are out there all mother and father of the year and I always fell like the jerk and like I'm this huge bitch. I didn't do shit!! it's hard for me to pretend I'm OK when I'm not like I don't wanna be in this room but I don't wanna go out there either ugh I'd expect more from a 45 year old man but he is as immature as they come and he will never change. I'm just trying to stay calm for my baby's sake