agree. but I don't want to have to many males in and out of my kids life. I'm with my boyfriend now and have been together almost 11 months. I had my daughter with someone else and he has helped me take care of her and now we have one on the way (due to a failing birth control).
@andiryan93, I can understand not wanting men in and out of you and your child's life...my daughter had two people 3people in her life..one I stayed with till she was two but he was awful so I left the second still sees my daughter every weekend and the third is my husband so it worked out..she don't remember the first one.
that's good that it worked out that way. I know a couple women who have been with multiple men on such a short period of time and their kids are at that age where they get attached easily. it breaks my heart to see that happen especially since one of them is my cousin and her older daughter is close to me and seeing her hurt like that kills me.
@andiryan93, yeah I know two kids who have s how for a mom she would meet guys only be engaged by the third month and with another guy by the fourth....and its been on repeat like that for years..since she and the kids dad split...I could never do that to my child
my cousin was with someone for 7 years and cheated on him with someone else. than confused her daughter who is now 10. it's sad. her daughter doesnt like who she's with now so she sneaks around to see this guy who is very toxic and no good.
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agree. but I don't want to have to many males in and out of my kids life. I'm with my boyfriend now and have been together almost 11 months. I had my daughter with someone else and he has helped me take care of her and now we have one on the way (due to a failing birth control).
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@andiryan93, I can understand not wanting men in and out of you and your child's life...my daughter had two people 3people in her life..one I stayed with till she was two but he was awful so I left the second still sees my daughter every weekend and the third is my husband so it worked out..she don't remember the first one.
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that's good that it worked out that way. I know a couple women who have been with multiple men on such a short period of time and their kids are at that age where they get attached easily. it breaks my heart to see that happen especially since one of them is my cousin and her older daughter is close to me and seeing her hurt like that kills me.
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@andiryan93, yeah I know two kids who have s how for a mom she would meet guys only be engaged by the third month and with another guy by the fourth....and its been on repeat like that for years..since she and the kids dad split...I could never do that to my child
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a hoe not how...damn auto correct..lol
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my cousin was with someone for 7 years and cheated on him with someone else. than confused her daughter who is now 10. it's sad. her daughter doesnt like who she's with now so she sneaks around to see this guy who is very toxic and no good.
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@andiryan93, that sucks...some people just don't care about how there kids feel..its sad