why does he always have the edge to decide to clean the room or basement when I want to just…

why does he always have the edge to decide to clean the room or basement when I want to just go!!!??? it wouldn't be a mess if he wasn't such a damn sneaker head!!!! and he takes an 1 1/2 hrs to get ready I don't even take that long at this rate well be out of the house in about 5 hrs 😭😭😭😭😭😫😭😭😫 why???? why can't we just go?????????