I feel like my sister in law don't like the fact that am pregnant....(she's pregnant too)she decided she didn't want to tell no one but me and my husband that she was but ever since she see the attention ppl give me she has told everyone about it which doesn't really bother me what really bother me is that if i have a craving for let's say ice cream(example) she will go buy herself ice cream knowing i have no way to get one myself....last time i was preparing my baby shower ideas and everything i wanted she will say no or that's too much and i feel like i can't embrace my pregnancy without her trying to over stand next to me....am i wrong for feeling this way????
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@jhussey, i just feel so childish and wrong about this feeling...sorry for the venting
Sounds like it's definitely about the attention if it's only bad around other people. That's too bad, hopefully she recognizes how it makes you feel and changes!
@jhussey, as far as talking about how we feeling we always do but when it comes being around ppl that's when she starts acting like that ....we previously shared my first(her second)pregnancy together as well but we were in different states....am 2months more than her just like our last shared pregnancy...hope this gets better soon
You're definitely not wrong for feeling any way! Maybe she's just struggling with sharing her pregnancy with you? Maybe she pictured herself getting more attention and it's not working out the way she expected. I would try to turn things around and make them positive with her - maybe try to find time to just talk to her about all of your symptoms or what you're nervous about and see if she's experiencing the same things. Maybe she's jealous or her hormones are getting the best of her. It's so awesome to have someone close to talk to that's also pregnant that can literally relate to everything you're feeling.. it would be a shame to not be able to connect with her about something so special! Good luck!
I definitely don't think it's childish. It can be really stressful to have someone around who wants the attention. Unfortunately that's just how some people are, and when you're not that way, it can be hard to take all the time. Don't be sorry, we all need to vent to someone!