Okay ladies my husband and I have been trying and trying for our first and I'm starting to give up and feel hopeless.…

I know how you feel did the exact same for us it took us 10 months before it happened and I couldn't believe it literally tell today at my first appointment

your trying too hard.... don't try.. get it out of your head and just have fun... trust me it works... I tried for 2 years..... I quit trying for a week and it happened that weekend!!!!

I was on depo have been off for like 10 months and I went on the pill to regulate me and I'm just like losing hope. : (

@ritamae, we'll shit. haha

It's hard not to think about it all of the time, but we tried for a little over 2 years before I finally got pregnant. My fiancé was right - I just needed to relax and not focus on it so much. I know that's not what you probably want to hear right now, but just enjoy being with your man and spending time together and everything will fall into place! Good luck 😊

thanks guys haha (:

I agree with @jhussey my husband and I focused on it really hard for 2 years. I finally gave up, on a side note my sister can't have kids which is why we were trying to start early. Try making sex about love again, not making a baby. Go out, have fun, and like finding love, it will happen. It doesn't help in this moment, but it works. Good luck. You can always talk to me if you need too. I've been there.