Any divorced mommies here? How did you get over the heartache?

I just think about how stressful it would be if my husband were around. then I don't regret anything although, I am still so hurt and wish it could've worked out especially w a baby. but realistically I would be pulling my hair out if he were around

@jashmen, you do make a very valid point! Life with him was hell! I think of those rare 2 out of 100 moments that were nice and get weak hearted. And then I think, what if he changes his ways for his next family.. Why not for adam and I ? ... 😒😔

that's okay. in my heart relationships are to be thought of with love and forgiveness. unlike my husband who holds grudges in order to move on easier(cop out). it's better for you to step back and see the entire situation as it was. you don't have to deny those rare times you had great moments and it's not a bad thing to miss them but you have to look forward to having a relationship with somebody else that's better suited for you and munchkin! and feel bad for his next family lol. 😂👍💗💗

@jashmen, you're absolutely right ! I need to look forward to having a healthy relationship with someone else for adam and I ! Until I won't stop thinking about what happened to us, I'll never be able to move forward 100%. Hahaga you're hilarious! I'll def look at it that way and feel bad for them! I wish you the best of luck! You're so close to giving birth! It'll be the best day of your life!!!!

thank you! I can't wait!!!!! and good luck it's such a hard situation I am dealing with it too!

I'm divorced and it took me a good while to get over it was married 3 1/2 years and we had a daughter together but eventually time heals everything not to mention he was cheating on me and is now having a baby with his gf which helped me move past it

@jashmen, I totally understand! Make sure U file for custody and child support once your baby is born

@countrymama166, im so sorry! I know how hard it can be. The cheating is def a stab to the heart. My husband was cheating as well. Im glad it helped U move past it. It made me feel even worse than before.

It hurt for a while and I won't lie I cried a lot but knowing how he hurt me like that made me realize I don't want somebody like that and now I have a amazing guy who helped pick up the pieces and we are expecting our own bundle of joy , any time you need to talk I'm here I know how tough it can be @adamsmaaa

You deserve the best so hopefully you will get to a place where the pain eases up :-) @adamsmaaa

@countrymama166, wow your story gives me hope! I just hope even after finding "the one" that I'll get over him. It just seems impossible now but maybe one day...maybe

@countrymama166, btw congrats on your new pregnancy! Im so happy that it's with a guy who will love U both so you will have a complete family!

@adamsmaaa, thank you I've been having trouble with this one pregnancy with the subchorionic hematoma and now bleeding again after it had stopped , but yes there is hope he has completely made me forget my ex husband and it will take time but I have faith you will find happiness :-) , yes he loves my daughter as his own