I am feeling very depressed today. Here's the short version. My bf is best friends with his ex (that…
I am feeling very depressed today. Here's the short version. My bf is best friends with his ex (that he was engaged to) even tho she cheated on him. Well anyways we've been together over 2 yrs and we are expecting our little one next month. His ex was in a relationship with a woman but they recently broke up because she tried to commit suicide and she just wants to be alone.. Needless to say I am so terrified that my bf and his ex will start to text more and get closer than ever because he said no matter what I'll always have love for her.. And I'm afraid of this because when we first started dating in 2014 a yr after they broke up they texted hearts and everything.. I don't need this it's driving me crazy :(
andrea cortez·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (40 нед.)
that's no bff thing. I have a guy bf nd I definitely don't talk like that two him and he is my x bf. I left him. but we are both on I love U as a best friend terms. he is ur man N U need to tell him cut her off. especially if that's a x
Becky Blue·
thats not right you need to tell him not to do that anymore or its over he doesnt care about you if he said that
Sara J·
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I just don't want to make him feel like I am controlling him but it isn't fair to me. I shouldn't have to have that worry in the back of my mind @mrs_lovely_drea
andrea cortez·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (40 нед.)
your his girl and baby mom. ur the priority babe. see that. if he don't he loves her.
Chrissi Lewis·
if he is torn between you two girls then tell him to choose the second one because if he was real about you, he wouldnt be entertaining another girl, ex or not.. you dont need that and your little one definitely doesnt need that!
Sara J·
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Thanks for everything ladies. It helps. I just hate this heavy heart feeling I have right now. 😟@adriannasmomy @chrissil @mrs_lovely_drea I just don't want to have that worry in the back of my head that he's texting her things he shouldn't be
Bree·
@abelsmom, Hey hun.. I'm sorry to hear that.. I dealt with something similar recently.. my boyfriend had 1 other relationship he was serious about & sure the girl is married now & stuff but I still felt uneasy because they are still really good friends.. well this girl wrote me on Facebook & told me that it only felt right to become friends with me if they were to remain friends & to congratulate us on our baby.. she explained everything & even know I knew must of it I respected her a lot for it.. we are now friends.. & talk about everything.. but what helped was he didn't hide anything I was welcome to read it.. that helped a lot.. but remember you come first.. you are the mother of his child.. I would talk to him about it.
Sara J·
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Thank you @bree_55 she does message me at times and asks my bf how I am doing. She did say congratulations on the pregnancy. I guess I should try to ease up but that was his first love. It's hard not to let some of those feelings cross my mind. I will talk to him about it tonight. He is very open with me when something bothers me. I just want to make sure that I don't have anything to worry about. Thank you for sharing this with me it definitely is setting my mind at ease more @bree_55
Bree·
@abelsmom, you are welcome.. but try to stay open minded.. I would tell him what you don't like or even tell her.. they both should respect you.. & I know the feeling that girl was my boyfriend's as well.. but she respects our relationship & won't cross my boundaries.. but I'm here for you anytime you want to talk I know how emotional & hard pregnancy can be.. I'm glad that I could help. :)
Bree·
Feel free to inbox me.. I'm a good ear.. :)