so I found my husband messaging other girls for the third time after he swore to me he would stop.…

I wouldn't even bother with it, I wouldn't tolerate it. I would tell him its them or your family, we can leave. maybe that would make him think

@jessicahartze, I told him that last time. it was a month before our son was born. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to leave him but I don't trust him

yet love is built on trust...confront him and ask if he wants them or you...you shouldn't have to put up with that

@mrs.n.mr.awesome, you're right. I just don't want to deal with it to I know I have to. there's so much going on and I think I have baby blues and I'm just so overwhelmed 1000 miles away from family

I know you don't want to leave, but is it worth hurting everyday, worrying everyday, and just constantly feeling sick? Definitely confront him, don't just leave first. Always a good idea to try to fix it. but some men just don't know how to stop being an ass

always try fix before flee...I'm sure it will be hard to deal with even if the talk works out and if you don't do it now when...the 5x the 15x I would rather get it over with and find out if I wasted my time or if he learned

I hate this feeling

That happened to me once after my son was born and we where married. I sent him to his mommas house and when I let him come back he was in the spare bedroom for a while. Gotta let him know what losing you would feel like. I have every password and still look through his stuff randomly. I love him... but I don't think I will ever fully trust