so am I the only one who gets along with my mil when she doesn't down grade me? the only reason I…

so am I the only one who gets along with my mil when she doesn't down grade me? the only reason I ask is cuz recently she keeps saying I don't pack his bag good enough or I don't layer him enough.. I know he is my first son it just makes me super mad... BTW the pic was from a while ago but I am so in love with it.