sorry for posting so much guys. just need to vent. okay so my boyfriend and I share a house with his…

have you tried having everyone sit around the table and just let them know how you feel?

yes I have told them and here we are a month later and nothing changed. I've gotten called a "bitch who thinks she runs everything". I'm just about done. I'm 31 weeks why should I have to do everything? you know?

@kay.forsha,

u don't have to clean all the house just because u don't work. U are not their room-maid. Your bf pays your half for the house, and who from you 2 pays is not the business of his sis! Make the timetable (par example this week the couple of sis cleans, next week it is u who cleans) and discuss penalties if somebody refuses to clean. It is always better to keep things clear between people who share their accommodation..

@morganhayyleyy19, oh trust me I know, I've been there. has your boyfriend said anything to them? or try just keeping your stuff clean and don't clean their stuff. and watch how quickly they change their ways

well in the beginning I didn't mind because it gave me something to do during the day. then they started taking advantage of me. theyd literally wait until I got done washing dishes and then dirty them up again. I've asked them to wash their own stuff and that lasted about 2 days. and now its unbearable so I've just started picking up after my boyfriend and i. my boyfriend told them too do it too. still nothing. its like they're incapable of being adults.like for example we burn our trash so we let it build up a good bit then take it down to the field.well I was tired of looking at it so I'm pregnant ass took all four HUGE bags of trash down to the field, he came and saw what I was doing and didn't even offer to help me. @kay.forsha @i_che

girl, I feel you. we live with my boyfriend's twin brother and his fiance, who is ALSO pregnant. They don't do ANYTHING but make a mess and expect us to do all the cleaning. They don't even clean up after their dogs. It doesn't matter who asks them to help, they won't either way. However, I can never ask them to do anything because I'm called a bitch when I do. I keep cleaning up anyway because I can't stand a nasty house!! It's horrible, especially now since she and I can't stand each other anymore due to her doing some awful things throughout her pregnancy. it's so stressful.

tell me about it .. their inconsiderate. and they've caused so many fights between my boyfriend and I. we've almost broke up 4 times over them. @katarama

we fought a lot about it too At first but now even he's getting tired of it, especially when it comes to dishes. they use ALL of them in one day and don't clean up and leave us with nothing to use. even now I can hear them in there making a mess I know I'll have to clean up. He still tells me to calm down sometimes but I just ignore him. It's stressful!! I don't pay bills, either. instead my paychecks go to groceries and getting things we need like clothes and stuff. It's a system that works for us and they're always throwing it in my face when I ask them to do something and saying that I don't "actually" live here because I don't pay.

I'm going to go insane. @katarama if you want to look at my last post you can see what I go through almost daily.

sounds like someone need their own place

@lashellg, yeah I know we do but moneys a bit tight with my boyfriend being the only one of us working right now.. so unfortunately were stuck here until I hear something back from this job or after baby boy comes..