need to vent ------> so whenever I ask my bf mom to take us to a Dr appt or to run an errand she…

she does a lot for us esp since I don't work anymore but it's really getting to me BC it's like she ignores my "rules" and schedule and does her own thing so by the time he comes home from the wknd I have to start all over with trying to get him on a schedule. but lik now we are in public and I prefer him to stay in his car seat but she took him out and is holding him even tho he is sleep and my bf n I don't just hold him while he's sleeping

maybe it's just my postpartum ... oh and he is 5 months

I'm going through that this is my mothers first grandchild and she's acting like Kennedi is her child and she'll try to control me and tell me how I should raise my child. I just either agree with her so it won't cause a argument bc one I'm not yelling in front of my child and two bc I don't have time for it. don't ever say you're wasting your time raising your son! Your son knows who is mom is and you're probably a wonderful mommy ☺️ also, I don't live with my mom and refuse to drive an hour every other day so my mom can see Kennedi and my mother tells me that I'll regret doing these things and my child will basically hate me. keep your head up, bc it'll get better. it's your child not hers!

i know but what's a set schedule and set way of doing things if it's not SET it's basically time wasting

@nasirmommy, oh I know that feeling! Kennedi is on a schedule and she's going to my mothers house for the weekend and I'm nervous as hell that my mom will not follow my rules and go by her schedule.

it's going to happen I just don't know what to do BC she's been doing this since my son was born. this is my bf mom so I don't want to be too rude BC she'll tell him and then her comes back to me and I just don't have the time nor patience but I've been trying to be nice but it's really bothering me right now