I get so upset when my fiance gets upset :( he got upset bcuz earlier I felt the baby kicking and…
I get so upset when my fiance gets upset :( he got upset bcuz earlier I felt the baby kicking and then I told him to put his hand on my belly and it seems like every time he doesn't that the baby stops kicking. he just wants to feel his son so bad. I try to reassure him that he will soon and that the baby's just being a public k but he still just as this depressed look on his face :(
elie·
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i recommend ice that's what I use to get my daughter to move
sarahe714·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)
I went through the same thing. It will happen. just wait a few more weeks now my hubby loves putting his hand on my belly and he can even see her move.
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
next time the baby kicks, don't say anything. just grab your man's hand and put it over the spot where they're kicking. I had to do that because everytime I would say something, she'd stop because she could hear me
Jackie Moreno·
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That's how it was in the beginning of the movements whenever he would put his hand on my belly my daughter stops moving and he started thinking she won't like him already because she does that but now she moves his hands up and his head up whenever he puts his hands or head on my belly lol
Kassidy·
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thank you ladies for all the advice :) I just hate it, cuz I know that he just wants to feel like he's a part of this whole thing bcuz obviously us women go through it all which is why I believe a lot of men are in denial in the beginning lol. I'm sure he will feel it soon enough. I mean he can see when the baby kicks so next step feeling :) @arijane316 @jaaym_ @mommy2bee1696 @sarahe714
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
You're welcome. yea just don't say anything out loud next time and put his hand on your belly
Kassidy·
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I definitely will try that :) @arijane316
Jessica·
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I had the same issue. My husband would get really sad. So I started describing it to him. That helped too. He'll get to feel him soon don't worry honey (:
Kassidy·
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thanks :) @mrs.japrabbit