so the father of my Children has really disrespected me a lot . he beat me & I caught him msging girls :/ so I decided to move out ! now he's begging me to go back & that he will change for good.. I love this man , but I've been in this position before and each time I went back everything was good for a bit... then again the same bs.. he says he doesn't want me to struggle & suffer alone cuz he cares a lot for my daughter and my other baby girl along the way.. what should I do.. ?
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He doesn't want yu suffering, then he needs to let yu go, and yu need to let him go. easier said than done, I Know, but if yu know how it's gna end up AGAIN, Why get yur hopes up thinking otherwise. he won't change unless he wants to, and yu taking him back time after time again, it's a routine for him, he's used to it. dnt make it easy on him, your babies depend on you! good luck & stay safe.
Don't go back. that's not the kind of 'man' you or your children need in your lives. if someone beat you, they are mostly certainly going to continue doing it. and going back tells them that it's ok for them to behave that way, and it's not. that is completely unacceptable behavior. and it's not something that you need your children to learn. and keeping them in that environment will teach them that is how a woman should be treated. do not go back. put him in your past and leave him there. don't even continue to keep contact with him
thanks girls I really needed your advice I think it's hard to think straight with all these pregnancy hormones :(
You're suffering with him. You really want to get beat on and have your children see that? Don't do that.
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Don't go back. like @mira423 said, your and your children should not grown up in an environment where there's is harm. There's always child support or come to an agreement with his financial help.
don't go back. of this has happened before it will happen again and you and your children don't need that. its better to be alone than go through something like that.
Don't go back! You said it always ends up the same as before. You and your children shouldn't be put in an environment like that.
Stay strong and stay away from him, if not for you than for your kiddos. We went through this growing up and let me tell you it's really scary and upsetting for children. The reason he treats you well for awhile is because he's being manipulative, it's called the honeymoon moon phase amongst counselors, once he feels like you're under his control again he'll treat you like crap. I know it's tough but dig in your heels and tell him no. Good luck! ♡