Well, my boyfriend and I just got in a huge fight. He says if I don't move when the baby is born, he…
Well, my boyfriend and I just got in a huge fight. He says if I don't move when the baby is born, he and I are done because he won't/can't do long distance anymore. Never mind I'd have to leave my job, my apartment, my babysitter for my 5 yo, my family, and my support system to move 45 minutes away, and neither of us have a car, he doesn't have a place to live, or the money saved up/ secured a place to live yet.
Alex·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
Sounds like he should be the one doing the moving. That's not fair to you
Gwendolyn Paschal·
В ожидании первенца
Exactly..it's obvious who needs to move. U have too much to lose.
Jennifer Stough·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
honestly, at this rate, I don't think I even want him moving with me. last night, his one year old didn't sleep well and everytime he woke up he would yell "shut the fuck up kaiden." or something similar. I'm sure he will be a fucking Ray of sunshine when it comes to a newborn. ugh.
Jennifer Stough·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
@gcpaschal, @missalexisnicole
Gwendolyn Paschal·
В ожидании первенца
Well you might be better off without him. He's probably stressed the hell out but that's no way to talk to a child.
Gwendolyn Paschal·
В ожидании первенца
You know how it goes too girl. Once you make that move you instantly regret it!
Alex·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
Wow, girl, I think it's time to say goodbye. You don't want your baby growing up with that abuse ): I'm so sorry. You can do this 💕
Jennifer Stough·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
It wouldn't be the first time I've done it alone. My ex husband was never around. but at least he financially provided for his son. until the last two years lol.
Jennifer Stough·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
I don't want to wait until it's almost time to have this baby and him still not have a place to live. he's not willing to move to Tucson with me even if he paid off his fines and got a car. and honestly, it's going to be a struggle finding anywhere who will want to lease to him because he's a felon and he has two evictions on his record. it's wiser for me and our unborn son to stay where I know I have the support and means to provide for him. @missalexisnicole, @gcpaschal
Jennifer Stough·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (32 нед.)
and when I pointed out what he did this morning to the kids and mentioned that it worried me for when we have a newborn, he said "you mean when you have a newborn, right?" because apparently us not living in the same house makes us not a family, which means he won't be there?
Alex·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
I meant time to say goodbye to the pathetic excuse of a man (sorry, I feel very strongly toward these types of men. One of my friends was JUST in the same boat but she finally left him and he gets no part of baby's life.) you don't want your babies around that. That's not fair to them and it's not fair to you. You deserve better. Honestly, most of the time, the best dads are the ones who aren't blood. My dad adopted me and my biological dad was a dead beat. My cousins new husband is the best dad ever to her 4 year old since her real dad was a wife beater/ child abuser. So maybe in the future, you'll find someone who actually cares the right way and treats you right. But for now it's time to focus on you and your kids, not someone who's never going to get better