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Krystal
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OK, so my fiance works a decent job making around $46,000 a year and I'm a server making about $2000 sometimes less/more…

OK, so my fiance works a decent job making around $46,000 a year and I'm a server making about $2000 sometimes less/more a month. Well, I'm due in May and our bills are tight! Any suggestions on maternity leave since my job doesn't offer a maternity leave at all. I live in MN, but I don't know what we'll do. My fiance can pay all of our bills, but we won't have anything left over for food, gas, baby stuff etc. I'm freaking out!

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emerysmommy87

Krystal

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Yeah that's really dumb. Can u get an I.D. and show them the yellow papers that its in process and show them your mail and lease agreement?!

oklahoma.girl55

Amanda

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I've lived in Minnesota for a couple months and they won't help me with any kind of benefits because I haven't gotten a license here yet even though I have mail to prove my address it's ridiculous I Lost my job last month and we have been struggling so bad but they won't help me because I don't have my license switched

emerysmommy87

Krystal

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I owe taxes too, see, I'm screwed! but yes, @shandy69 it is very difficult and if you miss one simple lil paper, it takes another two months, or you need to reapply. So, rough!

shandy69

Shandy

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I live in Minnesota as well. Trying to get any help in this state is a joke! Put some of your taxes aside :)

emerysmommy87

Krystal

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I actually owe them $600 from "over payment" my previous job closed down suddenly and I found a new job immediately, but I still collected UI for the two weeks I want receiving any income. So, I doubt they'll help lol!

searrahmone

Searrah Hines

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See if the unemployment website will help out. I'm not 100% sure if they do but it's worth a shot

emerysmommy87

Krystal

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Good to know. I have WIC and they asked about my SO finances. I'm worried they won't help me with rent etc. I just want a month off work, two would be ideal, but probably impossible. It's so nerve wracking! I'm trying to get food stamps, but they gave me $40 a month a few months ago (apparently I make too much).. Ridiculous!

sexxymama83

Mrs.RJ

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Apply for food stamps under your name until you can get back on your feet. That will at least cover food. Also apply for wic they will help with formula and stuff like that or if you breastfeed you can get a free pump after baby turns a month.

kmrandall92

Kathryn

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If your not married MN will see you as a single mom. You can apply for financial assistance. My friend got her rent nearly cut in half, and gets SNAP, and unemployment. She's in between jobs right now, and the financial assistance is a life saver.

called hr at my job to find out about paid maternity leave. they basically told me I'm ineligible for a paid leave…

called hr at my job to find out about paid maternity leave. they basically told me I'm ineligible for a paid leave (short term disability) but that I can do a "job protection" leave that's unpaid and I have to use my vacation hours. this is exactly why I will not be returning to taco bell after I have this baby! been working there for almost 3 years, been a manager for almost a year, and I have to use vacation hours for maternity leave!?

I also recently found out that I can't take maternity leave only having been at my job since March... I must put in my…

I also recently found out that I can't take maternity leave only having been at my job since March... I must put in my two weeks when I am ready, and be completely rehired back after baby and recovery from second c section 😰😰😰😰 I'm so worried. What if they don't hire me back, and I have a two year old and an infant and no job. I am terrified about this

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?