I'm ready to figure out where we want to call "home" and get settled in so I can have this little…

I'm ready to figure out where we want to call "home" and get settled in so I can have this little girl and get enrolled into cosmetology school again because the first time I was accepted something came up and I wasn't able to go. I'm tired of living in a state with all of my fiances family in it and still feeling like an outsider to everyone I really wish he would just compromise with me and let us move back to Oklahoma at least until I can get through school because cosmo school is cheap back home. but he finds every reason to not wanna go back I feel like my options for living are always going to be around his family rather that's in wisconsin or colorado.. sorry for the long rant I just feel lost and I feel like I'm fighting a battle I'll never win.