My fiancé works 11pm-7:30am but sleeps until like 2 or 3pm. I'm so scared I won't get the help I want or need it's bothering me really bad he says he will help and I know they need rest but it makes me nervous

my hubby works 6p.m-6a.m & he comes home heads straight to bed and used to wake up around 4 p.m but I've talked to him and let him know I didn't like that I had to do everything alone with my son and that I wasnt getting the attention and love I wanted from him cause he slept all day and he apologized and made some changes so now he wakes up around 12 unless its weekend and we both work 3rd shift and my parents have my son.

My husband works 7pm-7am usually he sleeps during the day especially when we have nothing planned. But on days we have things to do he will get up & help. He's there for every drs appointment & still finds time for us time. & I even work 3rd shift on a couple days so its not all that bad on us. He does has his days where I need him up but he just wont. But everyone has those