This is my third. I'll do natural if all goes well. It's ok to be scared but don't buy into csections being easier, they're not. The healing period is actually worse. PM me if you want to. :) Sorry OP for the hijack.

you going natural or csection? I still have not decided. this is my first baby and I'm terrified. @lostinct82mj

me too lady. so ready. I got 8 more if she goes the full forty. we are almost there. lol.

@jessilee318, thank goodness I'm not alone! I'm ready to have a bit of normal-ness back in my life. 10 more weeks!

@lostinct82mj I'm in the same boat. it has been impossible to even get halfway there without me telling him I can't cause there seems like too much pressure. but I am carrying really low so that may be exactly what's going on for us both.

I've tried pillows, a million different positions, and it's going on week three. I think the baby is just sitting so low that my cervix is too sensitive.

@lostinct82mj is it really that bad. you have to be comfortable. try pillows.

@mommy2b_again I wish I knew. I've had sex like 5 times in the first tri.

@madi-girlsmama lol. you can't be behind him.

My doctor said it's connected to one of two things - orgasm or his semen. She recommended he use a condom. 😂 I just wish I could go back to those days, all sex is miserable now 😖

@madi-girlsmama, I've done that before, thanks

Try different positions. Like you on your side & him behind. I guess kind of like "doggy style" but where you're both laying on your side.

Thanks @kmrandall92

I used to! It'll get better after a few months :) it means your climax is causing your uterus to contract! I thought something was wrong with me. Turns out it happens more often then you think. Keep your head up. The second trimester was WONDERFUL ;)

I used to early on too