I need any advice ya'll can give me. I'm 11 almost 12 weeks pregnant and me and the father are not…

i suggest getting married asap by courthouse wedding. its the best. if you love eachother just do it dont think about it. that way you wont regret not doing it before baby is born and then you got some awesome pics to show baby. we did a courthouse wedding after baby and i still regret not doing it before baby was born.

then just tell ur friends and family that you got married by court and plan to do the big wedding after. or whatever you wish.

Yeah I know it shouldn't matter but I'm scared to what they are going to say or even what my church family is going to say

I personally say, who cares, they'll get over it. it is your life. not theirs, they may be mad. but there is nothing they can do about it

@mandapantz23, Sweetheart, you did adult things that have adult consequences. There are going to be people that are disappointed. But you are going to have to step up to the plate and show them you are going to make mature decisions now. Family being disappointed doesn't mean they don't love you; they want what is best for you. You'll come to realize that family will always be there, years down the road when not all your friends are. Confide in your parents and ask them what they think you should do and how best to care for your baby. I wish you luck!! It will be tough, but that baby deserves you to do what's necessary. ❤️

Don't let being pregnant be the reason you get married you to May love each other but just because you are having a child together doesn't mean get married! So many marriages fail! As long as you are happy don't worry about what others have to say it will be fine!