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Megan Lee
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RANT! Lol So Guys I Have A Question, I Honestly Cannot Stand My Baby's Fathers Mother Because She…

RANT! Lol So Guys I Have A Question, I Honestly Cannot Stand My Baby's Fathers Mother Because She Likes To Act Like She's Still The Main Lady In His Life, No We Are Not Married But Damn Why Do You Keep Treating Your 25! Year Old Son Like He Is 5 Years Old. The Problem Is She Doesn't Know Her Place & I Feel Like I Shouldn't Have To Tell Her That Because That's Not My Place & I Don't Wanna Say Something I Might Wind Up Regretting. To Make A Long Story Short We Got Into A Heated Argument About A Few Months Ago & I Felt Disrespected So Therefore I Dropped All Ties With Her, I Blocked Her Off Of My Phone & Everything I Don't Want Anything To Do With Her & When I Move Back To GA I Don't Want Her Around My Daughter Either. I've Never Met Anyone In My Life That Makes My Skin Crawl The Way She Does, Every Time She's Mentioned I Get Mad && When My Boyfriend Asks Me To Do Something For Him And Its Involving Her I Always Go Through Somebody Else To Relay The Message Because I Just Don't Wanna Talk With Her Or To Her I Have Nothing To Say To Her, I Do Understand That The Past Is The Past & That I Shouldn't Hold Grudges & Also That It's His Mother, But I Don't Want Nor Need Her Negative Fake Ass Energy Around Me Or My Child, The Question Here Is Am I Being Childish Or Petty? Cause My Boyfriend Seems To Think So, I Just Think That I'm Separating Myself Away From Her I Don't Wanna Hurt Or Disrespect Anybody's Mother. 💁🏽

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_mommyoftwo_

Ashley Keller

Мама сына (1 год)

I think you have the right to feel like that, if she is soo disrespectful!!!! I wouldn't put up with it. And you definitely don't need her to stress you and that baby girl out. So i think your right for putting space in between you guys. It is her grandchild, but it is YOUR child. And as an unmarried mother by law you have the right to choose who is around your baby and who isn't.

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madi-girlsmama

madi-girlsmama

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I can't stand my boyfriends/baby's fathers dad. But that's for some different reasons that can endanger our daughter. But neither one of his parents have ever said much to me. We're been together for 5 years, & I've been pretty much staying with him & his parents for this pregnancy (6 months) & they've only said maybe a few handfuls of sentences to me. I don't know what the situation is like for you, but if you feel that strongly about it I would just try explaining it to your boyfriend. If he still stands his ground maybe say you'll give it another shot (grit your teeth! I do it daily here:/) & the minute something happens say you're done? I'm sorry you have to go through this. You can message me if you want.

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madi-girlsmama

madi-girlsmama

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We've*

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djsmommy0516

Kanesha

Мама двоих (1 год, 46 лет)

I don't think you are being petty but I don't think you should keep her away from the baby because of you twos differences. I also feel like you two should have a mature respectful conversation and figure out how you two can make up and at least be cordial for the baby and your boyfriends sake. At the end of the day that is his mother and you will have to face her and deal with her eventually if you and your boyfriend are going to be together. Just be the bigger person you are grown women and you can squash whatever issues y'all have. Life's too short to hold grudges and be unhappy

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madi-girlsmama

madi-girlsmama

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@_mommyoftwo_, could you tell me more about that Unmarried Mother law?? You can message me about it if you want, I've just never heard of that & I think I should know more lol.

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mrshamilton830

Nesha

Мама троих детей

you're not being petty but just keep it cordial (spell check) because your boyfriend is in the middle

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ayyeblackberry__

Jessica

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This sounds exactly like my relationship with my boyfriends mother. Except she hit me while I was pregnant so she will never be welcome around me. I wish I could offer better advice, but I'm in the same boat. I wish my son could have his grandma around once he's born, but not on my watch. Maybe you guys can work things out for the sake of your baby.

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belizeanbeautyy

Megan Lee

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@_mommyoftwo_, Thank You, I Know I'm Not Crazy To Feel The Way I Do. @madi-girlsmama I've Asked Him Plenty Of Times, She Was Living With Us For Over A Year & I've Told Him I Feel Like She's Trying To Get In Between Out Relationship, But Of Course He Takes Her Side And Sees Nothing Wrong With The Things That She Does. He's A Mommas Boy And He Denies It Continually, I'm Just Sick And Tired Of Asking, When I Move Back To Georgia I'm Gonna Live Far Far Away So She Won't Have To Worry About Going Out Her away To See My Daughter. 😒

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madi-girlsmama

madi-girlsmama

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@belizeanbeautyy, then I totally agree with you. My boyfriend is kind of like that with his parents when it comes to not seeing anything wrong with them, but he's getting to the point where he doesn't want them around at all now, so maybe things will change for you. I hope so!!

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belizeanbeautyy

Megan Lee

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@dis mommy0516, That Sounds Like A Good Idea, I Can Try If I Don't Let My Pride Get In My Way, But That Is Definitely A Start Thank You. @mrshamilton830 I'm Gonna Try, Thank You, @ayyeblackberry__ She Put Her Hands On Me Before To Smh, && I Wouldn't Want That Around My Child Either, I Hope Everything Works Out For The Better For You & Thanks For Your Opinion.

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_mommyoftwo_

Ashley Keller

Мама сына (1 год)

I messaged you girl 😘

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