I'm super irritated with my SO:/. He just told me that he won't be able to spend no more than a day…

I'm super irritated with my SO:/. He just told me that he won't be able to spend no more than a day with me in Chicago because he decided to work Friday and Saturday at a bar:/. I always make an effort to come and see him in Detroit. I'm here now but I'll be working next week so I won't be able to come as often anymore. Now that he's working we'll hardly be able to see each other. He was going to come Tuesday night at 9PM and leave on Thursday so he can work on Friday but I just told him not to come at all since he'll only be here for pretty much one day. When I'm upset I don't talk so we're spending our last moments in Detroit in silence. He doesn't understand the importance of us spending time together. All he thinks about is money which is cool and all but damn I want attention too! Long distance sucks. I'm so over this😒😭