I'm a FTM and I don't want to seem like a butthole to my bf family but I would rather them not come…

nope, we ask our family to wait for us to leave the hospital. We ask that they respect our privacy and need to bond with our daughter.

Okay, yeah that's all I want as well. They have so much time after the hospital, I just want to enjoy that myself.

Nope i feel the same exact way

well is your family coming ? if your family isn't either then its fair. but if yours is coning and his is coming then its not

My mom and boyfriend will be there during L&D. Afterwards my sister will come visit but that's all. His family hasn't been any support during my pregnancy so that's why I don't want them visiting at the hospital. @sexii_diiva

I did let my husbands family come and it was so awful , if I could go back I wouldn't let them .

well yea. then I def understand.