im really starting to feel like i have no support system, everyone around me is more worried about…

im only having my hubby in the room when it's push time. my mom might not even be in there with us. it's about what makes you the most relaxed so your able to get down to business lol

it's not about in the room:/ i haven had to fight anyone about that one yet and I probably won't, its the hospital in general I believe they need to wait until we go home and get settled @mommyhughes4

You can have it where no-one can visit you while your there @hermommy

I Feel The Same Way, Just Don't Overthink It, Have The Conversation With Your Man About How You Feel, Just To Get Him On The Same Page And Aware Of What You Do And Don't Want To Happen With Your Baby...At The End Of The Day It's Your Baby And Your First So Do Watever It Takes To Make Sure You And The Baby Are Comfortable

That's how I'm having it

I'm thinking of doing that but then I have to deal with people saying I'm selfish. I hope most of them won't drive to Dothan. but even once I leave the hospital I want them to leave me alone and let me get use to her😧😢😢@nathansmommy2

@kartia_diamond, yeah he's on the same page he's actually worse then me not wanting anyone holding her until her first appointments people don't understand this is our first healthy baby@kartia_diamond :/ I just want them to stop being so judgemental and think back to their first.

I understand I'm going to be the same way but this time super protective because of what happened to my daughter @hermommy

@bundl3ofjoy25, that's how I am, and everyone respected that until I got pregnant with her only my So will be at the hospital I just feel like they should wait and let me decide when to have everyone over:/ and most have kids I don't want holding the baby😡 that'll piss them off. honestly I feel like she's mine and they need to have their own.

just say no visitors untill things get settled and everyone has had a chance to get used to wachother :) nothing wrong with that. @hermommy

I'm not having visitors until 24 hours after birth, at the very earliest. depends on how birth goes, how baby and I are feeling, and how pushy those people have been. most likely won't be seeing anybody once I get home for at least two weeks, I want to settle at home and get used to having a baby there and get my pets used to her. a new baby AND a revolving door of other people making them anxious won't help at all.

your baby girl isn't a loaf of bread, she won't spoil if people can't see her right away. screw them, this is YOUR birth, YOUR child, YOUR hospital stay. if you decide they can come but only to see her, not to hold her, then that's the choice you get to make. you will have just ended a nine month worry and stress journey and will have just pushed a baby the size of a watermelon out of something essentially the size of a penny. it isn't selfish to want to keep your baby in your arms, but even if it was if there is any time to be selfish, that would be it.

So Since You Guys Are On The Same Page, There's No Reason To Stress Love...And He's Worse You Definitely Don't Have To Worry About Anything Lol...People Are Gonna Judge No Matter What, But Why Should That Bother You. You And Your Man Is Making Sure Your Baby Is Healthy So That's Wat Matters

@mommyhughes4, that's basically what I did and you saw the comment I got lol

thank you, that's how I feel like she's my healthy baby girl i nurtured for 9 months and haven't got to meet her I'm nowhere close to delivering and they're already messing with me😡😡 I just wanna be selfish and love her I don't want to scare her by having all these people she's never been around even in my belly start attacking her wanting to hold her. I may tell them look the second to last day I'm th er y'all can come look at her but can't touch her I will hold her. but only certain hours bc Joseph won't b there to help me get them away@mancubsmomma

@hermommy I definitely wouldn't have anyone there without him. as pushy as they are already, I wouldn't feel comfortable without a bouncer. I get the pressure, my dad is insisting on being in the waiting room. idk how he's planning on that since the only way he'd know I'm there is if I call him :D

lol Joseph's bosses family is insisting that... they have a 15 year old that gets on my damn nerves bc they don't discipline her and the nine year old thats even worse....-.- like I'm fine if they come up after I've had time with her. but they aren't gonna come taking her from me

@mancubsmomma,