On Christmas we got into a huge fight with my MIL because she decided she wanted to stop at our…
On Christmas we got into a huge fight with my MIL because she decided she wanted to stop at our house at 11 drunk as fuck and cause a scene, it all ended up with my boyfriend and her husband getting physical and we haven't spoken since. Yesterday his sister called saying that his mom has been trying to contact him, which she hasn't and saying she's scared we won't tell her when our son is born. Now why would we tell you when he's born if you haven't even taken any time to apologize? Plus I don't want her to be around our kid, she's always drunk, like I'll have a conversation with her and the next day I'll have to have the same conversation because she doesn't remember it. I don't want that nor do I need that kind of behavior anywhere near my kid. Super rant but just feeling annoyed at how she believe she deserves to be a part of his life just because technically she's "grandma" but when we told her we were pregnant she pretty much called us stupid, the same thing she did when her daughter told her she was pregnant.
Shannie·
I wouldn't worry about about them just focus on you and your unborn child and your family I've been married to my husband going on six years this year and my in laws been feeling some type of way about me from the first day we meet starting all types of stuff I done tried to be nice and develop a relationship with them but nope they can't be grown ups like me and his older sister will never get along cause when I was pregnant last year she said so things about me was so disrespectful and then when I had my baby a week ago ain't nobody come to the hospital but he bring his mama but his sister didn't show up and I was glad cause the older sister was gone get turn rite around I mean I was stress so much through my pregnancy and sometimes I think my husband don't get it but I just told myself imma just worry bout me and my family and if they never come around forget life goes on but don't get upset or stress just do what's best for you
Jennyfer·
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@tjmommy, oh for sure! I'm not stressing about it and luckily my boyfriend knows how she is and even he can't stand her when she's drunk and agrees that she shouldn't be a part of our kid's life. I'm just ranting at the fact that she thinks she did no wrong and that we're obligated to inform her when the baby is born. Like, no. You decided to be stupid and well being stupid has consequences. I feel like about half the people on this app have problems with their MIL. She's never liked me from the beginning, I always had a feeling but she always acted fake with me and that night she was drunk and expressed her true feelings and I will never look at her the same ever again.
Shannie·
@wildtank, that's how it be but at the end of the day what these MIL and in-laws have to realize is you still gone be with that person and yeap I was always told when you drunk your true feelings come out
Rebecca Scott·
Мама дочки (1 год)
You need to tell her exactly what you think. If she cleans up her act then she can see your child. If not then she'll suffer the consequences.
Jennyfer·
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@lillianna453, if she approaches us and apologizes then yeah I'll talk to her, but we won't be the first ones to talk to her because that night things really out of control. He husband, who just joined the family a year ago, threatened my boyfriend saying that next time he would kill him. So we really don't care for them at the moment. She never even helped with anything, all she ever did was talk shit and try and push me out of the picture so she's like the least of our concerns right now.
Rebecca Scott·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@wildtank, I definitely understand that. My sister in-law is going through similar stuff. I meant if she comes back trying to make things right. People like that are toxic for a good family anyways. Sorry you and your family are going through that.
Carol Burrough·
Мама сына (1 год)
well one thing is for sure, if she tried to fight for grandparents rights she wouldn't win. also doubtful that she could afford it if she drinks like that.