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Alright ladies. I need help. Badly. My son will be two tomorrow (πŸ‘πŸ˜­) but he is so violent. He thinks its ok to hit me, throw things at me, slam me in doors, he laughs at me when I tell him no and trys so hard to physically hurt me. He even pulled a dresser drawer out on my foot and now it is swollen and black and blue. I think he re broke something I had broke by a horse. I've had horses step on me and it hasn't bothered me. (he is like this with others too. Adults and children). Time out doesn't work, explaining why its bad doesn't hurt, I even tried a spanking one time and that didn't work. He went right back and did it again. People tell me his just being a kid but for a two year old I think that's a little wrong. No violent play, no violent movies, nothing like that. I can not figure out where he learned this behavior. Any ideas
29.01.2016

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kiwii
kiwii
my little brother growing up was like this, to the point of hurting himself if he couldn't get at you, he would be put in his room and he would throw his toys at the door while screaming so my mom would reach in and pull the toy out untill he had nothing left to throw. it was this phase it sucked and we just had to get through it. my dad was a spanker and he still was a terrible two year old. maybe clear out his room and when he misbehaves stick him in there maybe he will eventually get the message just be consistent. even if he hit and then says sorry. nope sorry you hit you go to your room. my little brother when he had nothing left would beat his head on the carpeted floor untill he had little blood speck on his forehead some two year old are just crazy... he's a pretty normal adult now lol hopefully it will pass for you too
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proudmomma14
proudmomma14
I'm at a dead end
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proudmomma14
proudmomma14
If I take toys he destroys stuff and he barely eats so I can't take food away
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rosalinasmami
rosalinasmami
@proudmomma14 omg yea I would say hit him back too, but not so hard where it leaves a mark. don't want that doc reporting something false.πŸ˜’ maybe take all his toys from his room? skip a favorite meal until he cries for it, and make it known that feeling he's having is what it's like when he hurts mommy.
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proudmomma14
proudmomma14
Pops don't work. He cry's for a second grabs the nearest object and throws it or hits you with it. AMD for a two year old he has left bruises on me.
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mrsstewart
mrsstewart
With my little sister when she first turned 2, she'll be 3 in may, we would give her a pop and say no anytime she hit back or bit or anything and she stopped. In my opinion it's ok to discipline with pops. There's a difference between abuse and discipline. And honestly I think that's what's wrong with a lot of youth todayπŸ˜’. Not starting anything it's just an opinion.
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proudmomma14
proudmomma14
Bit him back his Dr seen it I told him what happened and why I did it he told e if he seen it again he was reporting me for child abuse. He literally made me cry real tears lastnight and he just laughed at me.
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reaganmommy2015
reaganmommy2015
My son was like that when he was that age he would try and bite me. I would bite his ass back so he knew how much it hurt. He stopped doing that to me. Boys are rough you have to teach him not to act like that towards you. If he hits you just cry like he really hurt you then he will realize that he is hurting you.
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proudmomma14
proudmomma14
It doesn't work. I've tried that too. He just gets worse
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iqrahp5
iqrahp5
@proudmomma14, just try to ignore him... my oldest daughter is like that.... I ignore it and not say anything she comes up to me and kisses me (her way to say sorry)
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