I'm having a meltdown this postpartum shit is hitting me hard , I'm very overwhelmed with all this like taking care of a baby is not a easy job but according to my husband since he works his jobs harder then mine ... when I'm the one that has to breast pump every two to three hours and makes sure she's bathed and has clean clothes on and make sure she's comfortable like being a mother is not easy at all . I said I was overwhelmed I didn't say I was over whelmed because of having her but to him that's what his ears heard . he comes home from work and watches TV. he doesn't wake up in between the night to feed her or change her diaper or put her to sleep and his job is his excuse. Yeah he works to pay for our bills and our house and I appreciate that so so so much but I'm the one taking care of your daughter.