i know i shouldnt say this but i am not happy with this pregnancy. i just look fat with a big ass…

If your thinking about adoption let me know.. I'd be more that happy 2 adopt

i know its hard. but how you look shouldnt determine if you want your child. thats selfish to say. either way you are going to gain weight and be bigger. if you keep your baby cool. if you want to do adoption cool. but just because you dont like how you look isnt a reason to say you dont want your kid. just my opinion. i gained weight but i love my kids and would not take back my tiny body for nothing in the world

Do what you think is best for you and your baby. Plenty of people have been single parents and do wonderful jobs. Just follow you heart. If you do choose adoption, there is always the choice of an open adoption. Good luck!

im saying tht im not happy all i do is cry. i have to finish school and its starying off bad so y not give the baby to a good couple who would adore my child??

@jasmommy, I feel the same way I got pregnant by the wrong person and he wanted me to get an abortion he don't want nothing to do with me.my daughter father now what's to come back in our life and raid this baby like his own....I'm not happy about this pregnancy at all I'm always mad it's not registering in my head that I'm having another child by some cold hearted nigga.....I stay crying....

Your still early so your stomach hasn't fully formed it's shape yet I felt the same way in the beginning but now it's starting to form and you have to do what's best for you trust it can be hard especially going through a lot but try and hang in there and if you still think adoption is the best then hey you are giving a blessing to someone else. Either way the decision you make will be a good outcome

all I will say is that 12 weeks is too early to be showing. you may be bloated, but likely you aren't showing your baby yet. from now to 20ish weeks your body is going to change a lot, your belly will become firm, and you will feel your baby start to move. make the decision you feel is best for you, and that will be best for the child as well. but you have plenty of time to decide, so try not to worry too much now.

thank u. @youluvkay

that's the hormomes @jasmommy

@nmartin1, somebody know wht this feels like everybody talking about hubbies and i no some r lying but at the end of the day if u not married u still a single mom. whether he around or not. i just really hate my life right now. and im strongly thinking about adoption bottom line

whts the hormones? @hermommy

the not being happy and crying, I've gotten super depressed also but whatever you do follow your heart you will make the right decision@jasmommy

I had just lost my dream amount of weight. I struggled with my self esteem and hated how I look since I was really young. I finally got to where I always wanted to be. a couple weeks later I found out I was pregnant. let me tell you I was SOOOO upset. 32 weeks pregnant today and I still have total melt downs of not feeling attractive and how fat I am. its rough but its definitely worth it after seeing my daughter on the ultrasounds. I was going to give up since her dad and I weren't getting along to well at first. it gets better. just give it some time. trust me. I was in that place and its not a nice place to be. it really sucks and is upsetting. whatever your heart says listen to it. don't let peoples opinions make you think twice

went from tiny and party girl living my life to huge, momified and pretty much a wife.

thank u @charleerose. hating this life rite now. i feel like God is punishing me

you have to make the best decision for you is very normal to get depressed feelings especially when your left to go through this life changing experience alone however it only ruins your life if you let it I'm a mom of 2 3rd on the way full time honors college student halfway done with my associates degree I have a wonderful support system so it makes this pregnancy a bit easier but it was Def not planned anyways give yourself some time you'll probably change your mind about about what you want to do with your life and your child best wishes in your decision-making