I don't blame you. Especially with the crazy amount of hormones that go through your body after baby. If you can try it if not bottle feed. Totally up to you Hun. No one will judge you either.
im definitely going to try, I want that bond with her if I can have it, but i have to be sane in order for her to be okay also lol like you said @mommyx415 thank you for understanding and not acting like its the end of the world
Yeah I totally get it. When I stopped at 4 weeks I got hell. I'm just doing what is best for my daughter and medication I was taking definitely wasn't best. I was a wreck off of them. When I told some people that I was stopping they gave me hell asking all these questions. It's no one's business you know what matters is you tried. I knew I wasn't going to be breast-feeding her for a long time. But I at least wanted to get the first couple weeks and the most crucial parts. I did the best I could. When she was in the hospital at two weeks she had a UTi and had to be admitted. I was nursing at that time but not being on my meds alone with the stress of her being in the hospital it got worse. I was crying everyday and watching my baby get IVs and a pik line put in was enough to put anyone over the edge. All that matters is you tried. Nothing else. If anyone has anything to say about it tell them to pound sand because honestly they don't know your story or what you're going through they have no place to judge. I do miss it but you will always have a special bond with baby no matter what.
You'll do great. You know your limits on how far you can go without them. Even if you try the first 72 hours even 1st week. At least you tried and she got breast milk for the amount she needed it. She'll be perfect!
Samie Thomas·
Мама дочки-младенца
is it a for sure no go with the meds and breastfeeding?
missing268user·
im just not sure I want to do that, that's n out the only med I'll need also depression so I'd rather not fool with it @_akgirl @savannahapagie
missing268user·
I just don't think it's something I want to do with my first I'm not sure about if at this point @savannahapagie
missing268user·
I'll talk to my ob, just not okay with that being in my milk and her drinking it
Tonita·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
This was my issue as well. I nursed the first 4 weeks longest I could go without meds.
missing268user·
thats why im debating bc I haven't learned to control my worrying on my own @mommyx415
Tonita·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
I don't blame you. Especially with the crazy amount of hormones that go through your body after baby. If you can try it if not bottle feed. Totally up to you Hun. No one will judge you either.
missing268user·
im definitely going to try, I want that bond with her if I can have it, but i have to be sane in order for her to be okay also lol like you said @mommyx415 thank you for understanding and not acting like its the end of the world
Tonita·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Yeah I totally get it. When I stopped at 4 weeks I got hell. I'm just doing what is best for my daughter and medication I was taking definitely wasn't best. I was a wreck off of them. When I told some people that I was stopping they gave me hell asking all these questions. It's no one's business you know what matters is you tried. I knew I wasn't going to be breast-feeding her for a long time. But I at least wanted to get the first couple weeks and the most crucial parts. I did the best I could. When she was in the hospital at two weeks she had a UTi and had to be admitted. I was nursing at that time but not being on my meds alone with the stress of her being in the hospital it got worse. I was crying everyday and watching my baby get IVs and a pik line put in was enough to put anyone over the edge. All that matters is you tried. Nothing else. If anyone has anything to say about it tell them to pound sand because honestly they don't know your story or what you're going through they have no place to judge. I do miss it but you will always have a special bond with baby no matter what.
missing268user·
yeah I'm going to try as long as I can before its uncontrollable defnlinetly helped me make that choice@mommyx415
Tonita·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
You'll do great. You know your limits on how far you can go without them. Even if you try the first 72 hours even 1st week. At least you tried and she got breast milk for the amount she needed it. She'll be perfect!