I'm just really not the type of person to tell someone to leave someone they are with when they are…

I'm just really not the type of person to tell someone to leave someone they are with when they are being treated bad or going through something...because it takes time no matter how dumb you look it takes time for some people to realize that they deserve better and 9/10 they are going to go back anyways..I really just try to be there for people and be a listening ear but you can't tell someone to leave..they have to do that on their own terms ..it sucks but its life .