A lot of people have the idea of waiting until twelve weeks to tell anyone. I've had six miscarriages in my young life. This time around I did not wait the twelve weeks. Why? Because I already love and acknowledge my baby. If I do lose my baby... again I don't want it to feel like I was hiding a secret and then have to grieve alone.
Almost every one of my miscarriages was a little past twelve weeks anyway. I'm on progesterone twice a day and my hcg is incredibly high... so I have high hopes for this pregnancy.
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my first pregnancy we wanted to wait, my husband was deployed and I live in a different state then our families...I had a miscarriage...and had to go through it alone. it was worse because I couldn't talk to anyone about it. my 2nd pregnancy we told everyone as soon as we confirmed it by a dr...thank God I had a healthy pregnancy. but I wanted to share the joy.
yes mam:) just stay positive and excited <3 I here if you ever need to talk
@hermommy, Thank you and bless you. I know this baby was meant to be. 😊
Exactly! A loss is one of the worst things that can happen to anyone. We shouldn't have to feel obligated to closet away our pain.
Also, I understand that for some it's easier to wait... because they don't want to be reminded of the loss if it happens. I just feel like the bitter emptiness is worse than the pain of being reminded. ❤
it's harder when you don't tell people, congratulations hope baby stays super healthy I know how it feels to go through miscarriages praying for you girl
I felt the same way we announced very soon because I was happy and didn't want to have to grieve alone again. It hurt so bad!
Aww. I understand completely. ❤ I am so glad your 2nd pregnancy went well for you. :)