It sounds bad, but I'd be glad if my baby daddy just exited the picture already. All he's doing is…

It sounds bad, but I'd be glad if my baby daddy just exited the picture already. All he's doing is causing drama and stress for me and my family while him and his galavant around the town spreading lies. He hasn't asked about his daughter, hasn't asked to see her, hasn't asked if she may need anything, etc. Every time I have asked if he wants to see her he has an excuse or says he just needs time to himself. Yet he tells people I'm preventing him from seeing our daughter, that all I wanted was for him to be a sperm donor so I could take his "hard earned money", tells people he constantly asks about her and I ignore him. he has seen her twice in her 4 months of life, and each time was initiated by me. Since then? Nothing from him. His mother has even called her homely looking, says she's white washed and he should be ashamed to have given her the opportunity at life, that I don't deserve a "native" baby. Both of them have gone around saying I'm prejudice against their people, that I hate natives and I'm just trying to get rid of the last of their people. Yet, if that were the case and I was so racist, why didn't I terminate the pregnancy? Why'd I date a native? Why has this little girl stolen my heart? Him and his mom are just...ugh. It's stressful. And it makes it difficult to get into my new relationship as fully because of all of this. I just wish him and his mom would leave, that he'd give up his rights so she doesn't have to experience the heartache and pain that follows with his constant leaving and hate and so she doesn't have to be anywhere near drugs and alcohol and negativity