I did not find out because I thought it would be more exciting that way . I was going to love them no matter what . I started having dreams that I would have a girl and I did . It was fun to see people want to know so badly

I wanted to know because it was my first child. I was so scared and wanted to be as prepared as possible. 20 weeks came..baby didn't cooperate. So i didn't get to know. Week 32 I had bleeding..I found out then during the ultrasound...A little girl!! TMI but bleeding was because of a hemorrhoid so baby was fine.