My fiancé and I had to do fertility to conceive our son. I prayed and promised that if God gave me a…
My fiancé and I had to do fertility to conceive our son. I prayed and promised that if God gave me a healthy baby I'd be happy. my fiance ' older kids came to live with us because of unhealthy environment with their mother. My son is going to be 2 in March and I have baby fever. I find myself getting upset with the older 3 living with us because it makes it to where there really isn't enough room for another person in our house. I know it's extremely selfish or hateful but I feel angry almost that I'm going to miss out on a big part of life because I'm taking on 3 kids who I didn't lay down to have. Sorry for the rant. I guess I'm trying to decide to talk myself out of starting my fertility treatments I have scheduled.
Stephanie·
My fiance had 4 kids when we got together. I didn't think I could have any kids. No fertility or anything and we were blessed with our daughter (only girl). I was so happy to actually have one of my own. we didn't plan to have anymore 5 kids is a lot. we don't have the older three but we do have custody of his youngest son. however we do have the kids a lot so I know all about room. It's hard at time thinking you may never get to have another of your own because you made the awesome decision to get with a guy that had other kids. Well here I am prego with baby 6 for him!! It was tough to take in and realize that things will be tight but we are still excited. We made our 3 bedroom into a 4 bedroom (still lots of room sharing lol) and we will have to take 2 vehicles wherever we go even tho I have a mini van. It's not easy but we will make it work. If it's something you both want and you know you can make it work then go for it. I may have been way off on where you were going or talking about but this was my experience. I used to kick myself in the butt thinking I'll never have another baby. we have so many. he won't agree. Well God had other plans. Told him of he don't want anymore then he better go get fixed bc I'll have as many as he let's me lol.
Stephanie·
Also, best if luck on your decision girl.
Tracy·
Мама дочки (2 года)
you shouldn't feel like you cant have more kids. my hubby has 2 older daughters and i told him i want kids.. he is 10 years older then me and he didn't want anymore kids. we did Fertility with my daughter. she is 2 and i told him i want 1 more or a divorce lol.. so we did Fertility again and we have our boy! im excited he isnt so much but o well!! anyway as far as the older two kids u did know he had them. i am not sure how u feel about them living with u his daughters dont live with us and only visit for an hour sometimes . they dont have a great relationship with their dad. but if u want another baby u should have one. i know having my son is going to be so hard and a struggle but i cant wait . good luck
Tracy·
Мама дочки (2 года)
@onemorewilldo99,