My boyfriend's sister just found out she's pregnant (she's been cheating on her hubby) Idk if she is…

I know how you feel. I'm having a boy but wanted a girl so bad. Then I found out my SIL is having a girl. I cried so much, I love my son but I'm still butthurt

I'm right there with you lol @marinarose

boys are full of joy. girls are sneaky especially once they oldernu gotta stay on em. but b happy.

you should be grateful for whatever you get. alot of people cant have there own children. you should not be jealous of what someone else has.

lol no one said I was ungrateful so if your gonna make ignorant assumption you can comment on someone else's post @thestarsinorlove

@lexilulu, nor did I say you were ungrateful saying be grateful for what you have is not telling you are ungrateful its telling you be happy. if she has a girl so what. you shouldn't care. both of my sisters have been through not getting the sex the wanted and don't take up out on me or get upset with me when I got the sex I wanted. they were happy because there babies are healthy

I'm very thankful I can even have a child I don't need to explain myself to you lol please just go away @thestarsinorlove

I've been with my fiance for over 5 years and we've been trying to have a baby for at least 4 years, every single time I got pregnant he's been right there with me wanting a girl, and our first pregnancy we had a girl but we lost her at 7 months and then this time he changed his mind and wanted a boy and I ended up having a boy lol. He gets whatever he wishes for lls.

But I understand where your coming from @lexilulu because I cried when I found out I wasn't having a girl but that completely didn't change the love I already had for my baby boy...

That's what I'm saying ik I'm going to love my baby boy just the same no more no less .. but I am sorry for your loss @ninjamami

She should be able to grieve for the baby she won't have but also be grateful for the one she does have. I'm sure she doesn't tell herself how to feel