soy son is coming out of a sleep regression, I was up with him so to many times to count during the night I was actually waking up with him in bed with me and not remembering going to get him the exhaustion is real folks!
anyway he's finally getting back on track I been working with him and he is only one once a night the last few nights iv been going at the self soothing really consistently and he's getting it of he wakes some times he fusses around for a couple min sometimes he doesn't. I feel really bad I think/know I hurt my husbands feels tonight the baby woke early and made a couple little noises didn't cry was just moving around husband jumped up and ran in there put a paci in his mouth started patting his back and shushing him heres the thing he didn't take him out of his crib right away wich is how iv asked him to do it, but the baby would have resettled him self in stead husband wound up taking baby out and rocking him and putting him back only only for him to wake 5min later, if he had done nothing baby would have gone back to sleep. I know husband was just tring to help but I have just got him sleeping almost normally again if he stats disrupting that I'm worried baby will revert to needing help to resettle. I after all am the one who normally gets up and by normally I mean this is the only the third time in almost 5months he has tried to help.(could have used some help during the regression lol) anyway I told him thankyou that was sweet but... I really need you to wait untill your sure he won't resettle himself I don't want him reverting seeing as how we have just gotten back to sleep g almost normally... husband was hurt I could tell he probably thought of be thrilled he tried to let me sleep, he mumbled something about feeling like I was saying he was screwing up.... question is there another way I can come at this that's might not be hurtful to him. it's late maybe I didn't come across right. ..