When your unborn child's father is (38) and you're (22) and y'all break up and he decides that talking to his ex…

I'm in a similar situation! why is it that lately the older the guys, the stupider or more immature the decisions they make?! lol smh boys!!

I'm 17 having a baby with a 24 year old who has two kids already one was just born 12/31/16 && I had no clue about the baby till November

Rightttt ! and I thought date a older man , they have their crap together and you won't have to worry about this and that .... bull crap ! It was all fun and games and I thrill being with someone younger until that someone younger got pregnant(but yet he still wants to have sexual relations with me but doesn't want to be with me because he's still in love with her and wants to try and see if things will magically be different and better between them ... ummm it didn't work for 10 years what in the hell makes him think it'll work now especially with a new baby and 22 year old ex in the picture 😂) ! Just goes to show that some men NEVER grow up !

I'm 21 and married to my husband who is 34

well that's good that your husband knows how to be a man and act his age and take care of responsibilities (: @haleylove2011

:) we have a 3yr old and one on the way and SHIT! he does NOT know how to act his age! I feel like I have 2 kids and one on the way! lol @ashersmommy04116

Its just absolutely crazy .... like what attracted me to mine was that he had a little wild and bad boy in him but he still seemed carrying and responsible THEN I saw the real him when I moved in with him..... like he thinks nothing he does or is doing is wrong ! I'm just totally dumbfounded half the time. Like you don't really help me out , I get ignored when I try to text and call sometimes , but yet he still wants to have sex with me and tells me he still loves and cares about me but turns around and loves her too , and she lives 5 hours away from us like wthell .... it all confuses me , and I was giving in to him for a while and still having relations with him in a sexual way because its fun and I thought I was some how keeping a part of him when I did that but all it was doing was destroying me and making it harder for me to move on and accept everything so I'm done I won't go out of my way anymore to call or text him if he wants her he can have her I'm so much better than the both of them ..... but seriously what the hell is wrong with these men !

my husband is 9 years older than me I'm 23...we do perfect together...sorry to hear bout what your going thru..could be a mid life crisis..or maybe he thinks he's missing out on something..men have a different mindset.

@mommi321, you're probably right ..... when we met it was crazy , fun and wild .... I guess I made him feel alive but then things started to get serious and I got pregnant and he realized that it wasn't fun and games anymore ! I mean his ex is older and obviously knows more than me and has been through more and they went through the every day process like nothing exciting and her sex drive is down and then he meets this 22 year old who he thinks looks good and I have a very high sex drive and it was brand new and fun and a thrill and then I think he started to realize that there is more to just being in a relationship with someone younger and that I might not think like he does or I still want to do this and that in life and it was just too much and caused us to fight ALL the time , then make up with sex and fight again it was just a very unhealthy pattern.... Now he just wants to have his cake and eat it too and he can't do that lol ..... its just crazy to me , he wants to be with her but still be sneaky with me and it confuses me and makes me question myself like what's wrong with me , why aren't I good enough to be with you , and makes me feel like shit honestly like knock me up then abondon me is what I feel like so I've got to break the pattern even though its fun and realize my worth ! She can have him , because he will never change , he's old enough and is pretty much set in his ways ! I'm sure later down the road , he will be crawling back or always trying to get with me when he comes and picks up his son its just a weird situation and almost like tabooish ! ughhh sorry for the long story I just need to rant and let it out lol

I am 24 and the father which I am currently dating is 38 and he thinks the same way sometimes like everything his way he doesn't do anything wrong I have to sit him down sometimes to get him back on track but I understand very well where u are coming from