so it literally breaks my heart to watch my boyfriend check out other girls in public. I told him…
so it literally breaks my heart to watch my boyfriend check out other girls in public. I told him and rather than being any type of considerate he instead made an even bigger ordeal out of it. saying shit like "oh my god tap the breaks someone's hearts broke!" his friends were with us, I know if we were alone he wouldn't have been like that.. he had an audience basically.. so I hit him. I slapped him in the face and he immediately stopped pushing our grocery cart and walked away saying he wanted to kick me out of our house. I pulled the cart to the car and left it at our trunk and got in the car and started crying and he got in the car saying its OK that you hit me babe I'm not mad. he didn't understand why I was so mad at him, he literally made fun of me.. I felt like I couldn't even cry in front of him without ridicule. I feel so emotional and unattractive and he just talks to me in this stupid baby voice rather than actually talking to me about the problem. I want him to talk to me like an adult and I want his friends to leave so he can be more considerate without looking like a bitch or whatever the case.. this blows..
missing268user·
make him feel uncomfortable, when my SO and I first got together he was typical and you know looked at females butts I use to say damnnnn there's no way that ads was real or did you see those dimples... makes them aware you noticed what they're doi ng but also makes them uncomfortable 😂😆
Kristin·
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@hermommy, i used to do that before I got pregnant I think it just encouraged him. now I'm super jealous and insecure.
missing268user·
if that didnt work only thing i can tell tou to do which will make you uncomfortable especially with you being pregnant. check out a guy and make SURE he sees you they hate that and he will get it doesnt feel good. your carrying his child!@kristandley
Kristin·
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oh gosh that'd be a task! @hermommy its hard just cause my belly is huge and round. I've referred to her as my own personal cock block lol guys will eye me until I walk past the counter and they see her, they instantly look away!
Kristina·
how old is he??
missing268user·
trust me i get it, it's not easy at all but some men only learn from experiencing what they do to you and realize it doesn't feel good... but yeah typical man they check you until they realize your pregnant @kristandley
Kristin·
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@kysmama25, he'll be 25 on the Feb 11.
Kristin·
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@hermommy, yea after I cried about it and tried to tell him why, he's been talking to me in the baby voice trying to hold me and "comfort" me I guess. it's not an apology but its his way of knowing he messed up
Kristina·
don't waste your time trying to get back at him, that wouldnt help anything anyways. he sounds very immature, what a shame. sounds like you need to make sure you worry about you and your babies happiness.....and dont ket his stupidity annoy you. when he does something that that you need to let him know that is not how a man should treat the mother of his child and if he continues to do so you will not stick around.
Kristina·
just because you are having his baby does not mean you have to put up with being ridiculed
Kristin·
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@kysmama25, he's only so immature around his friends. I hate it. when its me and him alone everything perfect. we communicate and are considerate of each other.
CheriseNicole·
my boyfriend had tried that with me and when his friends come over I tell all of them about how I feel. If you don't demand respect and speak your mind he's never gonna know how you really feel you should do it now before the baby comes and then you'll feel worse about it tell him what you want and will and will not tolerate
Jordin·
Arg! I'm sorry :/ I hate when guys act a different way around other peers.. It's so confusing. Guys are horrible at hiding the fact there checking someone out :/