Is it normal to throw your own baby shower and send out your own invites. My bestie wants to help…

I threw mine, no biggie!!

@osiris517, im pretty much throwing my own baby shower my aunt is helping alittle and we are doin co Ed so I don't think it's to weird

i did mine & it was co ed .

@jborton, I feel like it will be more comfortable for everyone (especially me, I struggle with anxiety, even more so when I'm the center of attention)

I used to struggle with depression and a

Anxiety so I know how yu feel I still don't feel comfortable around large groups of ppl even my own family so I want my hubby to be there so I don't have everyone attacking me lol @osiris517

A co-ed actually seems like a good idea. Most of my babes friends/brothers all have babies it seems like so they can all bring their girls that way it'll probably seem funner doin the games.

@jborton, exactly... He can be like my body guard lol even though I love everyone that will be there. Sometimes it's just too much lol. @whiteowlmamma , yeah I don't have a huge group of friends so it will help fill it up. Plus I think with the guys there some of the people who don't necessarily hang out with each other will at least have someone to talk to.

I love everyone that will be there to but between both our families there will be a lot of ppl and eventually if I don't have him there to help like yu said be my body guard I'll get fed up and almost irritated becuz it's just to much

@osiris517,

I just don't wanna make him feel left out. I honestly believe we did this together so we should celebrate together.