OK I need advice. (fake names) sister milli is planning sister centi a baby shower. sister centi,…

I don't know tbh. If sister milli is paying for the shower, then you can speak your preferences, but it's ultimately between milli and whoever the baby shower is for (had a hard time following lol)

@chhaya, lol sorry I didn't want to put any names out there in case someone knows who I am talking about. all the sisters are pitching in except the mother I think.. she wanted to do her own anyways

it's what's in the mothers best interest

the mother wants one after

What's the difference between Milli having it and the father's family having it?

I think sister Centi should have the baby shower after baby so there won't be a whole bunch of neutral color clothes and gifts. Plus it's Centi's baby she should have major decision over things no matter whose throwing it

^that's why I said it's between the one paying for it and the one it's for. If the mother wants it at a specific time, then she should get it. But others opinions aren't really needed. The mother needs to be asked what she wants. Not everyone else.

I was forced into having 2 showers (I knew the gender though) and both of them were for my boyfriends mom, I was just there. I was entirely pissed off. and I won't ever forget it or forgive her for it.

@junesmommy15, it's 2 different showers @adrianmom.ily @chhaya ya different ppl are pitching in and she wants to be the ultimate choice maker but ask for our time and money

honestly she should get to. it's her baby. it's not an everyday occasion and she should get to make the choices for her baby.

@chhaya, ya I know. it pisses me off milli was being a cunt lol but she changed it