So I'll be 21 in July and I'm currently a junior in college. I've lived on my own since I turned 18.…

I know many girls that had a baby before finishing college and they are doing the damn thing. taking care of their kids while still finishing up school. my home girl had twins a year and a half ago and is graduating this May. all u need is a good support system and get your child care in order for the days you go to school. all will be well... good luck.

Tell her like the adult you are. You don't live with her, does she pay any of your bills? My family is Jamaican, so I know how crazy it can be, but u have to face her one day. When you tell her, mention how ur still in school and what are your plans while being pregnant and after the baby with school. She'll want to heart more about how I manage to overcome having a baby before your degree. Make it clear to her that you'll still finish school. It may ease her mind

I was out of work for a month and she did help me a little bill wise but I take care of my bills myself but I feel as if I turn to her if I ever need help in the future she is going to shun me and be like your grown enough to go get pregnant so deal with it yourself @twowomenoneheart ..I mean I know she will except it eventually I'm just going to have to go through her being disappointed in me and all the cussing

@babysavage, I'm Trinidadian so i know West Indian parents. They don't care how old you are. Good luck

Just tell her to get it out he way. The sooner the better. U don't want her to feel like u his if from her and u tell her when ur like 6 months.

@nurseriri, lol exactly

@twowomenoneheart, I'm going to see her at my grandmothers bday party February 18th my thing do I tell her before the party, when I see her or after

Aw that's my bday. But tell her after. Unless she gets drunk, wait til the next day or so. Don't ruin the moment. Let her enjoy ur nanas party.

Lol I'm Jamaican so I completely understand . I just finished nursing school which is way harder than under grad was to me . She will be mad at first but try your best to finish not even so much for her but for you . You can do it . Good luck .

if your out own your and being an adult then stand up to her and if she can't accept it love her from a distance don't let her stress you it can cause problems for you even miscarriage she be missing out on a grandbaby but life will go on I can see if you still lived with her if you can lay down and make the baby you can stand up to you mother sorry if I sound harsh but life is to short b as babygirl