this whole having to wait six weeks and for my stitches to fall out before having sex again thing is…

Mine were gone by then but beware you will be sore during sex and you'll be really tight

@kimb2213, okay thanks for letting me know I was wondering that. how long do you stay sore for?

I bleed for 3 weeks and by 4 I wasn't so sore anymore but it differs from lady to lady. My baby is 8 weeks now

@kimb2213, I'm already done blleding I have been for about two weeks now. I was wondering how long are you sore during sex for.

Oh I don't know cause I'm still sore during sex and so tight he can barely fit in there

@kimb2213, oh okay. hopefully it's not too bad for me.

Maybe not 😊

They tell you to wait 6 weeks, or until you're cleared by your doc, because of the risk of infection...

@unbecomingme, yeah we haven't done anything. I'm waiting til after I'm cleared by my doc.

Good! Didn't mean to sound preachy or anything, I just don't think most people understand there is that risk

@unbecomingme, no it's fine. I knew to wait

not everyone gets sore when they have sex again for the first time. I caved and had sex after 2 weeks and it only hurt a tiny bit for a minute then it was great and I wasn't sore after or anything. I was fine but probably should have waited 😂 but I wasn't strong enough to wait a whole 6 weeks

@kristinamarie_1996, well I hope thats how I am. yeah I'm struggling.