So the fact that mommies on here are allowed to bash others and feel good about themselves is…
So the fact that mommies on here are allowed to bash others and feel good about themselves is disgusting to me. I come on here to see all the positivity and joy. I get excited seeing all the milestones everyone is crossing. (I'm a very excited person, I genuinely find joy in other people's happiness. Sounds corny I know tehe🤗) But when a mommy is making people out to be neglecting harmful parents to their children over something like castor oil is just to much to me. You have every rite to have your own opinion over things. But saying someone is a bad parent or risking their child's life over something so small and that so many woman do is appalling to me. Especially when a mommy is asking questions over it and hasn't even decided if it's something she will do!! But as long as something is done in the safe dosages and whatever else the situation may account for then I do not believe anyone has the rite to say they are terrible parents. The negative opinions are not needed. If you are sincerely worried about the safety of someone's baby just briefly explain you heard it's not safe and maybe tell them you believe they should double check with their dr. That is the way to come about the situation NOT TELLING THEM THEY ARE HORRIBLE AND KILLING THEIR CHILDREN. I'm sorry I just had to rant because I stepped into a situation where I saw this happening and felt it was wrong and I got attacked by two young ladies and I am not happy about it. I'm way to positive of a person and feel this was just out of hand.
jjordan86·
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I COMPLETELY 100% AGREE WITH YOU!!!!!👏👏👏👏👏
Adrianna·
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Girrrrrl AMEN! Because during their 9 month pregnancy they never ONCE, slipped up and did or ate something that could be considered "harmful" to them or their baby. People annoy me!
Caitlin Bossert·
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I just saw one of the posts that girl put up and I guess she's new on here. I've been on here for over a month now and there has never been any drama but now all of the sudden there's just hatefulness as I'm scrolling down. it's just ridiculous. I come on here to read about what other moms are going through and things of that sort, not to read women bash on each other. it's sad.
Caitlin Bossert·
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well I guess she isn't new but I haven't seen her post a lot recently and I hate that she's contradicting herself and acting like she knows everything when nobody knows everything. what each mom decides to do is their own choice. doesn't make either one right or wrong.
Shaynia·
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The one I'm talking about I don't think is new. I was looking at her profile and she had almost 600 posts. She seems to be a very active user. The second girl I am not sure about. Both are now blocked. I had never seen the second girl that stepped in though. I've only been on here probably about two weeks. But this first girl who posts frequently I constantly see on my feed. 3-4 times At Least a day and she is always pretty negative about practically anything. But today I felt she took it way to far and decided to say something. I literally said it was immature and out of place and it didn't settle well with them at all. @caitlineisner
Caitlin Bossert·
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yeah I've seen quite a few of hers recently. they're pretty negative and more ranting than anything. I think the original post got deleted because I didn't see it and I'm glad I didn't. it's just crazy to talk down to another mom like that. she wouldn't like it if someone was saying that to her. at least you won't have to see her posts anymore!
Kirsten·
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I agree you shouldn't go about it in a rude way. but I've heard so many terrible things about castor oil I am just so worried when I read that someone is going to use it I freak out telling them not to do it!! I know someone who took and it caused their baby to bm and get in their lungs and killed them. And another girl I know has a friend that tried it and the same happened. It can cause it to ruin your baby's lungs or kill them it's just such a strong subject. it's scary to think one thing could kill your healthy baby just like that and I'd never want anyone to go through that. it has worked for many people but just the thought of that chance of it affecting your baby and causing death is enough for me to never induce labor like that. I think that's why she overreacted probably.. It's just so scary!! :(
Shaynia·
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Well the girl had went from the original post and had made her own post practically calling the girl a murderer. It was way over drawn. I understand if she was sincerely worried like you seem to be. I just think there is a boundary people shouldn't pass and the girl had by far passed it. We are all supposed to express concern for each other but the way this girl did it was way uncalled for. It was crazy. She brought in drugs and alcohol and everything else. It was way too much. @mommy2be15